1. Open the gel.
2. Apply a little gel on your hand.
3. Slowly rub the gel into intimate areas.
4. You can add a drop or two to the top of a worn condom for extra lubrication.
Anal sex - how to prepare?
Before engaging in anal sex, follow a few steps.
1. Hygiene
The rectum is physiologically empty. An enema performed before anal sex is therefore not necessary, but it certainly improves mental comfort and cleanses the rectum of the few residual lumps.
However, there is no denying that this place has a rich bacterial flora. In the prevention of infections, the most important thing is to respect the rule: after anal caress, do not put your finger or penis into the vagina - first wash it thoroughly or change the condom . This protects the vagina from getting bacteria from the anus. On the other hand, this rule does not apply. After vaginal caresses you can have anal sex.
2. Lubricant and a condom
In order for anal sex to be comfortable and safe, it is necessary to buy a lubricant , i.e. an intimate moisturizing gel. The anal mucosa does not produce a slippery, friction-reducing film like the vagina does, so any penetration, whether by finger or penis, inside the rectum can cause irritation.
Contrary to appearances, ejaculation during anal sex can also lead to pregnancy (when sperm flows out and gets into the genital area), so it's better to use a condom. But the most important reason why a condom should be worn during anal penetration is the high risk of transmission of intimate diseases . The anal area is even more vulnerable to harmful microbes than the vagina, so anal sex is more likely to cause HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and any other sexually transmitted disease.
3. Gentle caresses from the outside
For anal sex to be satisfying, partners need to be aroused and relaxed. From a practical point of view, this state is easiest to achieve by starting the sexual act with vaginal intercourse, stopping at some point and moving on to anal caress - but without the participation of the penis! You need to give your partner time to prepare for the touch in this special place . Slow, gentle caresses from the outside work wonders and allow the tightened muscle to gradually relax. So you can start with stroking, kneading the buttocks with your hands, and then move on to delicate caresses around the anus (only from the outside).
4. Caresses inside with your finger
Then you can proceed to the next phase of anal sex - caressing inside the anus with your finger. In this way, we prepare this sensitive place to receive the penis. With proper hydration and a full sense of touch, the caress of this extremely erogenous zone, rich in nerve endings, will not bring pain, on the contrary - it will cause many positive feelings. Remember that Rome wasn't built in a day and you have to get used to this particular form of contact.
5. Penetration test
In the next stage, you can try to insert a member into the anus, but if the partner feels pain at any time - this is a sign to stop and return to caresses in some time. You can also use butt plugs of different diameters instead of going straight to penis penetration. We start with the smallest one, and when the intercourse is no longer uncomfortable, we move on to the larger size cork.
